Friends star David Schwimmer has explained why he turned down a role in Men in Black.
During a recent appearance on the Origins With Cush Jumbo podcast, Schwimmer was asked if he was unable to join the 1997 blockbuster due to scheduling conflicts with Friends.
However, the actor said he declined the opportunity so he could direct his first film: 1998's Since You've Been Gone.
"[It] was a brutal decision. I had just finished filming The Pallbearer, my first film with Gwyneth Paltrow, and there were high expectations of that which didn’t come true," he began
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"It was kind of a bomb but there were high expectations and the studio which was Miramax wanted to lock me into a three-picture deal at a fixed price and I said I would do that if I got to direct my first movie."
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After months of negotiations, Schwimmer agreed that he would star in three more movies for Miramax if they let him direct a movie starring his entire theatre company.
He continued: "All these unknown actors but I was going to put them on the map, basically. I was going to let everyone discover the talent of this amazing company.
"We found this amazing script and we were developing it. We started pre-production. All my best friends in the world in my theatre company quit their jobs so they could be in this film over the summer, which was going to be a six-week shoot in Chicago."
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However, the project overlapped with Men in Black and Schwimmer was forced to make a difficult decision.
"We’re in pre-production, hired the whole crew, everything’s going and that’s when I was offered Men in Black," he recalled. "It was a direct conflict with this. My summer window from Friends was four months. I had a four-month hiatus and Men in Black was going to shoot exactly when I was going to direct this film with my company.
"It was an amazing opportunity. However, my theatre company and that relationship with all those people would probably have ended. I don’t think it would have recovered."
While Schwimmer said he's aware that Men in Black would have made him a "movie star" and possibly changed the trajectory of his career, he also believes that "you have to follow your gut, you have to follow your heart".
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